3 Things to Do Right After You Say “Yes”
There’s something undeniably exciting about this time of year. As proposals sparkle beneath twinkling lights and champagne toasts fill the air, engagement season arrives in full celebration. At Ocean Edge Resort & Golf Club—Cape Cod’s premier wedding destination—we love welcoming newly engaged couples as they begin dreaming about their perfect day.
Whether you envision an elegant Mansion wedding, a lively celebration on the Front Lawn, or a grand soiree in our iconic Mansion Ballroom, your planning journey starts long before you choose your venue. Not sure where to begin? Here are the first three things to do immediately after getting engaged, according to our award-winning Ocean Edge weddings team and our resident Wedding Expert, Harmony Toner:
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Celebrate Your Moment (and Share the News Thoughtfully)
Before Pinterest boards and planning spreadsheets take over, take time to savor the moment—just the two of you. Enjoy a special dinner, take engagement photos to commemorate the occasion, and be sure to tuck away any keepsakes from the day— you may want those later for wedding décor, a special anniversary gift, or simply to frame with your engagement photos.
Pro tip: If you’re dreaming of Cape Cod engagement photos, Ocean Edge offers endless backdrops—from windswept beach grass on our private Bay Pines Beach to the historic Mansion’s grand architecture to the wooded trails around our 429-acre resort. The settings are seemingly endless (and stunning in all seasons!) Connect with our wedding planner for photographer recommendations!
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Dream Together About Your Ideal Wedding Experience
You don’t need every detail figured out yet, but aligning on the big-picture vision early helps everything fall into place. Many of our couples are opting for a wedding weekend rather than a one-day event, and that's what makes Ocean Edge such a sought-after venue; our expansive property and our wide array of activities allow couples to customize an itinerary that will have their guests talking about it for months.
As you begin planning with your partner, talk through:
- - Guest count
- - Season or month you love
- - Indoor vs. outdoor event
- - Must-have moments, like beach portraits, a sunset toast, or a live band
- - Unique additions to extend your celebration, like a croquet or pickleball tournament, welcome party on the beach, or a private yoga class and sound bath in our infrared wellness studio
At Ocean Edge, couples can choose from a variety of unforgettable settings — from grand ballroom receptions to sunset beach ceremonies on our private stretch of sand along Cape Cod Bay — each one expertly supported by our dedicated weddings team. Plus, with our onsite spa, wellness studio, restaurants, and activities, your celebrations can extend well beyond the ceremony and reception.
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Book a Venue Tour Early (Engagement Season Fills Fast!)
Venues book quickly from December through March, especially sought-after dates in spring, summer, and fall. Scheduling a tour early gives you the widest date availability and the chance to see spaces in person.
A private tour at Ocean Edge allows couples to explore:
- - The Historic Nickerson Mansion
- - The Mansion Front Lawn
- - The Carriage House
- - Bay Pines Beach
- - Bay Pines Pavilion
During your tour, our planners walk through sample timelines, menus, accommodations for your guests, and unique enhancements—everything you need to picture your day from “I will” to “I do.”
This is your opportunity to learn about the many amenities available to our Ocean Edge couples. Want to start your special day with a spa treatment with the bridal party? Host your welcome party in the sand with a private beach fire? Organize a croquet or pickleball tournament on our courts? Whatever your vibe, whatever your whim, the team at Ocean Edge can make it happen.
Ready to Begin Your Wedding Journey at Ocean Edge?
Celebrate your engagement with a visit to Ocean Edge Resort, located on Main Street in Brewster. Our award-winning weddings team, led by Harmony Toner, is here to guide you every step of the way.
Explore Ocean Edge weddings and schedule your personal tour today by contacting our sales team.